Video instructions and help with filling out and completing Will Form 2220 Allowance

Instructions and Help about Will Form 2220 Allowance

I want to say some things to you about your daughter what I'm concerned about is her self image and self image is the perception or mental picture that you have your appearance abilities and personal worth and I think when someone feels like they have to have all of these things in order to feel like they're presentable to feel like they're worthy to feel like they can be acceptable then they don't have much self-worth well my mom made me feel that way yeah I've said that overindulgence is a form of child abuse it does cripple a child you see a child forms their self-image their self-worth by making attributions to themselves we watch ourselves in situations and say wow I did that I overcame that I accomplished that I did that I learned about myself that way so I have confidence that I can do these things she's saying you screwed up you parented me that way but it's not over up repenting so many parents have to have the opportunity to reparent their child so you guys need to redefine your relationship how do we do that you give her more love and less money and it's too late for that ya won't have any more well do with it as you will but that's what she needs to have I think I think giving this child $5,000 about $2,500 $1,000 a month is insane I think yeah I think that you as a parent you're required to give her a stable environment yes and you know you have a roof over her head feed her make sure she has medical care take care of her in those ways I think she needs to get a job no I think she beats I think she needs to get a job where she works and observes herself doing the things that she's capable of doing not in a hurry that's why you need an education so you don't have to work for minimum wage by the time I was your age I'd worked at inw root beer stand on roller skates I had worked at throwing a paper rounded I worked at Pizza planted I'd worked everywhere you could get a job I'm just saying realize when you indulge her mm-hmm you're doing that to make yourself feel better and what you need to do is do what is required for her to be better and is she going to be unhappy about it yes yes well that's her choice but you need to work out something where she becomes productive and makes a contribution to society instead of taking from society I think the best thing would be to start with a job No yeah absolutely she needs a job and I think it would be great if you volunteered some more at the soup kitchen you can do some great volunteer work down there I did that know I started with a babysitter I think my first job was that I hope you don't pay me to babysit she makes me babysit for free she doesn't need a job babysitting she needs a job in the world no she's need a job at home a job in the world Applause you need a job