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Music we've all got two wolves in a suit a good one and a bad they both want to eat the best I can tell we just got to feed that good one a little more than the other one happiness is an emotional response to an outcome if I win I will be happy if I don't I won't it's an if-then cause-and-effect quid pro quo standard that we cannot sustain because we immediately raise it every time we attain it see happiness happiness demands a certain outcome it is result reliant and I say if happiness is what you're after then you're gonna be let down frequently and you're gonna be unhappy much of your time joy though Joy's a different thing it's something else Joey is not a choice it's not a response to some result it's a constant joy is the feeling that we have from doing what we are fashioned to do no matter the outcome now personally as an actor I started enjoying my work living and literally being more happy when I stopped trying to make the daily labor a means to ascertain in for example I need this film to be a box-office success you know I need my performance to be acknowledged I need the respect of my peers are all those are reasonable aspirations but the truth is as soon as the work the daily making of the movie the doing of the deed became the reward in itself for me I got more box-office more accolades and respect than I ever had before see joy is always in process it's under construction it is in constant approach alive and well in the doing of what we're fashion to do and enjoying the easiest way to dissect success it's through gratitude you mean thanks for that which we do have for what is working appreciating the simple things we sometimes take for granted we give thanks for these things and that gratitude reciprocate creating more to be thankful for it's really simple and it works I'm not saying being denial of your failures no we can learn from them too but only if we look at them constructively as a means to reveal what we are good at but we can't get better at what we do succeed that my life's a verb we try our best we don't always do our best and since we are the architects of our own lives let's study the habits the practices the routines that we have that lead to and feed our success our joy our honest pain our laughter our own tears let's dissect that and give thanks for those things and when we do that guess what happens we get better at them and we have more to dissect it's a get-rich-quick on the Internet riches 15 minutes of fame world that we live in and we see it every day but we all want to succeed right so the question that we've got to ask ourselves is what success is to us what success is to you is it more money that's fine I got nothing against money maybe it's a healthy family maybe it's a happy marriage maybe it's to help others to be famous to be spiritually sound to leave the world a little bit better place than you found it continue to ask yourself that question now your answer may change over time and that's fine but do yourself this favor whatever your answer is don't choose anything that will jeopardize your soul Music prioritize who you are who you want to be and don't spend time with anything that antagonizes your character don't drink the kool-aid and it tastes sweet but you will get cavities tomorrow all right life is not a popularity contest be brave take the hill but first answer that question what's my Hill well for me it's a measurement of five things we got fatherhood we got being a good husband we got my health mind body and spirit we got career and we got friendships these are what's important to me in my life right now because I want to keep all five in healthy shape and I know that if I don't take care of them if I don't keep up maintenance on them one of them is gonna get weak man it's gonna dip too deep into the debit section it's gonna go bankrupt it's gonna get sick die so first we have to define success for ourselves and then we have to put in the work to maintain it take that daily tally tend our guard keep the things that are important to us in good shape defining ourselves by what we are not is the first step that leads us to really knowing who we are you know that group of friends that you hang out with that really might not bring out the best in you you know they gossip too much or they're kind of shady you really aren't gonna be there for you in a pinch or how about that bar that we keep going to that we always seem to have the worst hangover from over that computer screen right the computer screen that keeps giving us an excuse not to get out of the house and engage with the world and get some real human interaction I bet that food that would keep eating and stuff to taste so good going down makes us feel like crap the next week we feel lethargic and we keep putting on weight well those people those places those things stop giving them your time and energy just don't go there I mean put them down and when you do this when you do put them down when you quit go in there and you couldn't given them your time you inadvertently find yourself spending more time and in more places that are healthy